Want to get Marry?

Are you thinking of getting married? Are you well prepared to share everything with your other half? Are you ready to hold the responsibilities of being a husband or a wife and a child at the same time? Do you have enough money to support more than one person? If your answer is no, you better think again. 

It is not about the engagement ceremony or the kenduri itself. It is about responsibility, trust and compromising with not only your other half but their family as well. You need to remember that you are not only married to your other half but his or her family as well. The kenduri is about letting others know that you are lawfully married, so that when others bump into you else where they wont be shock. 

The most important key words to remember is to plan according to your budget. Getting marry is no longer as simple as what it used to be back than: kompang, simple decorated pelamin (some have none), only 5 to 7 of hantaran and giving only boiled egg rapped with napkin paper to respective guest. But now, getting marry is like planning for a dinner event; with beautiful decoration all over the house, a beautiful and grand pelamin, 10 to 13 of hantaran and some event book a convention hall for their wedding.

I wonder, who started it all? Do want to know why? People are now actually competing with each other in preparing the most grand wedding of their life. But what they really need to realize is, that is not what it is about. It should be about moderation and going according to what you are AFFORD to spend.

You probably wondering why am I posting such entry. Well I'll be getting marry in just 3 more months and I am having the most difficult time in my life. Lots to be done but I don't know where am I at now. Here is what  I already have:

1. Bahan-bahan to decorate my hantaran.
2. Kain to make baju nikah.
3. Dulang hantaran.
4. Alas dulang.
5. Mak andam.

Check list? Doesn't help! or is it just me that does not know how to use a check list! Agrh!!

P/S: lots to do....scared!