Dusty Dusty Table

This dusty blog need some spring cleaning.

For the past three months, I had one crazy journey through life.

I finally completed my research and will be attending my convocation ceremony middle of this year.

My best friend from college were married to her college-mate.
Congratulations Akmal & Yani!! 

and my husband and I get this wonderful wonderful news that we will be parents by end of August ^_^

Alhamdulillah, I am now 14 weeks pregnant.

My morning sickness was very bad (which does not occur in the morning, it happens all the time).

I lost my appetite and some weight due to that.

But now I feel much better and had stated to have my appetite back.

We were a bit anxious and scared because it happen so fast.

But now we are excited!

Delima..ke?!

Am I the only one who felt that time moves so fast that it is now mid of October? Gosh! Felt just like it was yesterday I celebrated my Hari Raya in Kelantan. Every time I look on my planner/schedule, there is no time left for fun. It's either classes or assignment or wedding stuff. But still, I am thankful enough to Allah that I am still given a chance to breath.

The wedding is less than a month and preparation as I would say, it is about 60% done. A lot more to do, with so little time. Insya Allah, everything will go as plan.

It is now a trend where every newly married couple live with their parents and parents-in-laws. Because it is very difficult to find a cheap house for rent nowadays. Even an apartment with 2 bedrooms will cost about RM1,200 in Klang Valley, especially in Petaling Jaya, Damansara, Subang Jaya, and Shah Alam. However, if you don't mind spending RM600-RM800 per month on petrol, you could afford to rent at a cheap price in Rawang, Sungai Buloh, and certain part in Klang (as you go further towards Kuala Selangor).

I am having a hard time finding a place to stay after the ceremony. The best solution is to stay with our parents while I'm completing my Postgraduate studies and after that we will think of something. I am worried because, I will be jobless for a couple my of month after completing my studies and that will burden my other half as he need to pay everything (from car, house and bills).

So, I really need a plan and I am currently looking for every opportunity that I have to venture into a business. I just need to look into the strength and weaknesses that I have and match it with the opportunity and threats that I will be facing. Ok! now I sound like writing my assignment. Enough of mumbling. I have a talk to attend tomorrow and I will share with you what I learn.

P/S: I should write about my field of study once a while, and yea my entry is dull without any photo in it.

My Engagement (Part 2)

Believe it or not it, I have been engage for almost 4 months.
The 4 months time had bring us closer and get to know each other better.
We spend time together and get to know each other's family.
We also did some shopping for our wedding and only few more items left to buy and we're done!

I love him, and i'm glad that we are one step closer to become a couple!
I'm done talking! Let's enjoy the pictures.

P/S: all photos was captured by Wan Nikman.

Regards,

Weekends + Monday

Weekends: 

Went for 2 days pre-wedding courses organized by JAIS.

Monday:

Shopping for hantaran.

Weekends + Monday = Tired

Tired: 

Energy level is now at 0 level.

Ok, that's all.

Thank you for reading.

Regards,

My Part Time Jobs!

I love the government so much! (erk! really?)

Because they gave my fellow MBA's and I a semester worth of semester break! T_T

Happy aren't we friends? Haha...

Yes, I am having a semester break melt down people!

But not for too long because I am making myself busy with part time jobs..Yes JOBS!

During the day I work as an Administrator at my brother's school,  Integrated Islamic School Shah Alam.

I do administration work and being the assistant to all the teachers.

Oh yes. They included a new task for me, The School Blogger! 

Yes people! Blogging is now an occupation! ^_^

On the evening, I give tuition classes to standard 1, 2 & 3 students.

I used to have 3 students but now I have 6 students...

Crazy I tell you! but they are all cute! 

(the other three is not in the picture tho)

and during the weekends, I am a wedding planner with my fiancée ^_^

My Weekends

Last weekend, we get away from our busy life.

We spend a day together, watched movies and survey things for our hantaran.

He had lose some of that weight..proud of him ^_^

Me? O I still have a long way to go. A lot more weight to lose.

But we still eat our heart out!

It was fun ^_^

Want to get Marry?

Are you thinking of getting married? Are you well prepared to share everything with your other half? Are you ready to hold the responsibilities of being a husband or a wife and a child at the same time? Do you have enough money to support more than one person? If your answer is no, you better think again. 

It is not about the engagement ceremony or the kenduri itself. It is about responsibility, trust and compromising with not only your other half but their family as well. You need to remember that you are not only married to your other half but his or her family as well. The kenduri is about letting others know that you are lawfully married, so that when others bump into you else where they wont be shock. 

The most important key words to remember is to plan according to your budget. Getting marry is no longer as simple as what it used to be back than: kompang, simple decorated pelamin (some have none), only 5 to 7 of hantaran and giving only boiled egg rapped with napkin paper to respective guest. But now, getting marry is like planning for a dinner event; with beautiful decoration all over the house, a beautiful and grand pelamin, 10 to 13 of hantaran and some event book a convention hall for their wedding.

I wonder, who started it all? Do want to know why? People are now actually competing with each other in preparing the most grand wedding of their life. But what they really need to realize is, that is not what it is about. It should be about moderation and going according to what you are AFFORD to spend.

You probably wondering why am I posting such entry. Well I'll be getting marry in just 3 more months and I am having the most difficult time in my life. Lots to be done but I don't know where am I at now. Here is what  I already have:

1. Bahan-bahan to decorate my hantaran.
2. Kain to make baju nikah.
3. Dulang hantaran.
4. Alas dulang.
5. Mak andam.

Check list? Doesn't help! or is it just me that does not know how to use a check list! Agrh!!

P/S: lots to do....scared!

'ermm...'

Salam everyone. sorry for not updating my blog lately, i need to focus on my thesis. since i only have 2 more days to make some adjustment on my thesis before i submit it for good!

so let me share with you what i've been doing lately. i completed my industrial training last 2 weeks and it was a life time experience. thank you so much for the farewell party. i learn a lot during my practical period - office politic, work, people's behaviour, customer services, phone attiques, business proposals, and many more. one thing that i regreat was i could not fully apply what i've learn at campus during the whole practical period. on the business and administration part Yes i did, but on the finance part maybe 1% out of 100%..huhuhuu

enough about the practical thing, more on to family now. happy news, i have a new cousin! hehhee..friends meet Khalif Amzar, cousin no 24 (he's from my father's side).. cute ha?! hehhehe

okay next, friends:

• aisya & danial: congratulation! you'll be parents in nine months..huhuhu
• leny, aqila, ewang, dila, jay, sofia, kak yani, amira, syahiran, and shieda: congratulation on your convocation! i wish you all the best in what ever you are planning for you future!
• to my friends that will be getting married soon: congratulation! start off with white canvas and color it with new colorful experience..
• my classmate: those who had been offered a job at your practical place, Congratulation! jgn ponteng2 keje mcm ponteng class dulu ok..hehehe ^__^

I'M HAPPY FOR ALL OF YOU!

on sunday, 18th october, one of my friend's mother pass away, she just recover from her health problem but Allah loves her more. i hope that he is strong for his small siblings..

as for me, i'm doing great. need to make a little bit more adjustment on my thesis and i'm done with study. i had started to search for potential job. i know with the current market condition, its hard for me and my friends to seek for jobs. i will grab whatever opportunity that lies in front of me and hope that i'll reach my target soon..

"Maria's Wedding Reception"

hello friends..it's been a while..I've been very busy lately..and have no mood to update my blog..hehehee..still I'm here to post new entry and share it with all of u..
last Saturday, my classmate and college mate invited me to her wedding reception..heheh..she is the first among us all to get married..

To Maria, congratulation on your wedding dear. thank u for inviting me to the unforgettable and memorable day of your life..

here are some of the picture that i manage to capture during that nite..

SATURDAY-7 February 2009









Syahidan & Maria